The dying process is a dangerous place to bring a fixation on perfection and control. Death plans are expressions of what we value most in our lives, and sometimes reveal fragments of trauma and loss from earlier experiences. If we are not careful, we may feed the fantasy of control and independence that sets more of us up to fail and increases the potential grief and trauma our loved ones will carry.
Death Literacy
Wake in New Orleans
Wake is a nonprofit organization with a mission to provide education and resources for meaningful, affordable, and environmentally sustainable death care. They produced a free guide. https://www.wake.education/lgbtqeolguide
Starting the Conversation: End of Life Planning for Families
We mortals tend to avoid these conversations until we are forced by circumstances of life to make decisions for ourselves and others in a crisis. This workshop is designed to help families begin this conversation in a relaxed setting with experienced support. Doing this work, when there is time to consider our values and preferences […]
At Peace: Choosing a Good Death After a Long Life – Samuael Harrington, MD
Compassionate Cities – Allan Kellehear
Death, Mourning, and Burial: A Cross-Cultural Reader – Antonius C. G. M. Robben
Die Wise: A Manifesto for Sanity and Soul – Stephen Jenkinson
Jenkinson worked as a chaplain in hospice and palliative care for many years in Canada. This book is a brilliant and scathing critique of how reform efforts in medical care (and “the death trades”) have ended up replicating the same death-denying, extending life for more dying, etc. I love the way he connects these cultural […]
Disparities in Care: race and ethnicity
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/hus/hus15.pdf
Barbara Karnes
BK is a death educator and nurse with a lot of useful information for caregivers of all kinds.
End of Life University
Karen Wyatt, a hospice physician who has become a passionate death educator and advocate. Her project includes hundreds of hours of interviews with death workers, a reading group, and many other resources for mortals and other advocates.
Death Ed for Mortals
An introduction to death and dying through historical, ecological, and cultural perspectives. Resist your fears and avoidance with information, comradery, and action. Each session includes a multimedia presentation and facilitated group discussion. Participants will leave with practical information, tools and local resources for better lives, including death. session 1: Death Leaves Home (medical landscapes) session […]
Death Ed Series at Greenfield Public Library Spring, 2019
The series offers alternatives to fear and avoidance with opportunities to learn, connect with other mortals, and take action for better lives and deaths. Death Leaves Home: navigating the medical landscape Life with Death: ecology and bodies Memorial Arts: saying goodbye and honoring our dead Dying in Community: building capacity and infrastructure for end of […]
Death, Mourning, and Burial: A Cross-Cultural Reader
By Antonius C. G. M. Robben
From Here to Eternity: Traveling the World to Find the Good Death
By Caitlin Doughty
The Work of the Dead: A Cultural History of Mortal Remains
By Thomas W. Laquer